The Kev and Lil have we met Podcast

Discussing relationships in all of it’s forms. We’ve been together over 30 years so we’ve seen some things together, and apart. Come join us.

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Episodes

2 days ago

In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the subtle—and not so subtle—behaviors that can erode trust in a marriage. From emotional intimacy to seemingly harmless flirting, we break down the things a married man should never do with another woman. Whether you're newly married or years into your relationship, this candid conversation is a must-listen for anyone committed to honoring their vows and protecting their partnership. Tune in as we explore real-life scenarios, expert advice, and practical boundaries that safeguard your marriage from unnecessary strain.

4 days ago

Why do seemingly happy marriages fall apart? In this candid and emotionally honest podcast, we explore the often unspoken truths behind why men walk away from their marriages. Through expert interviews, real-life stories, and psychological insights, 12 Reasons Why Husbands Leave Their Wives delves deep into the most common – and often surprising – reasons marriages unravel from the husband's perspective. From emotional disconnection and unmet needs to personal growth and betrayal, each episode unpacks one powerful reason, offering clarity, compassion, and practical wisdom for anyone looking to understand, heal, or rebuild.
Whether you're married, divorced, or somewhere in between, this podcast is a must-listen for those seeking deeper understanding of love, loss, and the human heart.

Monday Jun 09, 2025

Why do seemingly happy marriages fall apart? In this candid and emotionally honest podcast, we explore the often unspoken truths behind why men walk away from their marriages. Through expert interviews, real-life stories, and psychological insights, 12 Reasons Why Husbands Leave Their Wives delves deep into the most common – and often surprising – reasons marriages unravel from the husband's perspective. From emotional disconnection and unmet needs to personal growth and betrayal, each episode unpacks one powerful reason, offering clarity, compassion, and practical wisdom for anyone looking to understand, heal, or rebuild.
Whether you're married, divorced, or somewhere in between, this podcast is a must-listen for those seeking deeper understanding of love, loss, and the human heart.

Monday Jun 09, 2025

Why do seemingly happy marriages fall apart? In this candid and emotionally honest podcast, we explore the often unspoken truths behind why men walk away from their marriages. Through expert interviews, real-life stories, and psychological insights, 12 Reasons Why Husbands Leave Their Wives delves deep into the most common – and often surprising – reasons marriages unravel from the husband's perspective. From emotional disconnection and unmet needs to personal growth and betrayal, each episode unpacks one powerful reason, offering clarity, compassion, and practical wisdom for anyone looking to understand, heal, or rebuild.
Whether you're married, divorced, or somewhere in between, this podcast is a must-listen for those seeking deeper understanding of love, loss, and the human heart.

Narccissists Video Ep.19

Thursday May 29, 2025

Thursday May 29, 2025

In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the complex world of narcissistic traits—what they are, how they show up in everyday life, and why understanding them matters. From grandiosity and the need for admiration to a lack of empathy and manipulative tendencies, we break down the key characteristics that define narcissism. Whether you're navigating a difficult relationship, curious about personality psychology, or reflecting on your own behavior, this episode offers valuable insights, real-life examples, and expert-backed information to help you identify narcissistic patterns and protect your mental health. Tune in and learn how to recognize the red flags—and set healthy boundaries.

Narcissists Ep.19

Thursday May 29, 2025

Thursday May 29, 2025

In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the complex world of narcissistic traits—what they are, how they show up in everyday life, and why understanding them matters. From grandiosity and the need for admiration to a lack of empathy and manipulative tendencies, we break down the key characteristics that define narcissism. Whether you're navigating a difficult relationship, curious about personality psychology, or reflecting on your own behavior, this episode offers valuable insights, real-life examples, and expert-backed information to help you identify narcissistic patterns and protect your mental health. Tune in and learn how to recognize the red flags—and set healthy boundaries.

Death of a Loved One video Ep.18

Wednesday May 21, 2025

Wednesday May 21, 2025

Losing a loved one is one of the most profound and challenging experiences anyone can face. Grief is deeply personal and complex, often involving a rollercoaster of emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations. Let's explore this topic across key areas to offer insight and support.

Death of a Loved One Ep.18

Wednesday May 21, 2025

Wednesday May 21, 2025

Losing a loved one is one of the most profound and challenging experiences anyone can face. Grief is deeply personal and complex, often involving a rollercoaster of emotions, thoughts, and physical sensations. Let's explore this topic across key areas to offer insight and support.

Have we met Weight Loss Ep.17

Wednesday Apr 30, 2025

Wednesday Apr 30, 2025


I love this topic — it’s so real and layered. Let’s unpack it together.
Weight loss isn't just about the physical; it touches every part of life — your mind, your relationships, even your identity.
When you add children and relationships into the mix, it gets way more complicated. You're not just changing your own habits; you’re changing a whole ecosystem that involves time, energy, emotional bandwidth, sometimes even the food culture in your house.
Struggles:
Time and energy: Kids, work, house... where does self-care even fit?
Emotional eating: Stress, exhaustion, even celebrations can all trigger it.
Guilt: Feeling bad for taking time for yourself when your family "needs" you.
Lack of support: Sometimes even partners can be weirdly unsupportive because your change highlights their comfort zones.
The process:
Starting can feel like standing at the bottom of a mountain. It's often messy. You'll have days where you're "on it" and days where you feel like you lost everything you've gained.
Key things people often need: small wins, consistency over perfection, and grace for themselves.
Weight shaming:
This is huge. Especially when family, friends, or even doctors talk more about "your size" than your health. It creates shame, which does not lead to sustainable weight loss — it leads to secrecy, disordered eating, and low self-worth.
Health issues:
Extra weight can cause real health problems (heart, diabetes, joints), but here's the thing: people deserve respect and dignity at every size while they figure their path out.
Starting with a clean slate:
Maybe the most powerful idea.
Not about punishing yourself for the past, but about building something new from today. One habit, one meal, one walk at a time.
Weight loss goals:
The best ones are deeply personal and flexible — not just "lose 30 lbs," but "I want to feel stronger chasing my kids" or "I want to run a 5K with my partner" or "I want to wake up and not feel pain in my knees."
Would you want me to dive deeper into one piece of this? Like how to build a fresh start plan while balancing family life?

Weight Loss Ep 17

Wednesday Apr 30, 2025

Wednesday Apr 30, 2025

I love this topic — it’s so real and layered. Let’s unpack it together.Weight loss isn't just about the physical; it touches every part of life — your mind, your relationships, even your identity.When you add children and relationships into the mix, it gets way more complicated. You're not just changing your own habits; you’re changing a whole ecosystem that involves time, energy, emotional bandwidth, sometimes even the food culture in your house.Struggles:Time and energy: Kids, work, house... where does self-care even fit?Emotional eating: Stress, exhaustion, even celebrations can all trigger it.Guilt: Feeling bad for taking time for yourself when your family "needs" you.Lack of support: Sometimes even partners can be weirdly unsupportive because your change highlights their comfort zones.The process:Starting can feel like standing at the bottom of a mountain. It's often messy. You'll have days where you're "on it" and days where you feel like you lost everything you've gained.Key things people often need: small wins, consistency over perfection, and grace for themselves.Weight shaming:This is huge. Especially when family, friends, or even doctors talk more about "your size" than your health. It creates shame, which does not lead to sustainable weight loss — it leads to secrecy, disordered eating, and low self-worth.Health issues:Extra weight can cause real health problems (heart, diabetes, joints), but here's the thing: people deserve respect and dignity at every size while they figure their path out.Starting with a clean slate:Maybe the most powerful idea.Not about punishing yourself for the past, but about building something new from today. One habit, one meal, one walk at a time.Weight loss goals:The best ones are deeply personal and flexible — not just "lose 30 lbs," but "I want to feel stronger chasing my kids" or "I want to run a 5K with my partner" or "I want to wake up and not feel pain in my knees."Would you want me to dive deeper into one piece of this? Like how to build a fresh start plan while balancing family life?

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